In any community or circle you find yourself, work hard to be in the top 20% of the people that are truly useful to that community; that is how you become a great person. To become a legendary figure, work hard to be in the top 1%.
Sure, there is a bottom 20% of the people who always ensure that they are a burden to everyone else. They want to be pampered and tolerated, they display high level immaturity and are best ignored. There is also a middle class called “good” people, they are not really a burden to people, but they are not so helpful either to the larger community. At least they cater for themselves.
My plea with you is to be truly useful. If you want to move out of your community today, will you inspire tears of do not go, stay with us or will the neighbors start thanking God for ridding them of evil??